For bonus utility, opt for a mousse that doubles as a heat protectant.
For short hair, this may be all you need to get it to stand straight up. Longer hair may need the help of additional product. To get maximum volume, blow-dry your hair in the opposite direction of how you want it to fall. For instance, if you want it to be swept back, brush it forward as you dry it. That will give you more lift at your roots.
If your hair is thick, use a hair clay. If your hair is on the thinner side, opt for a paste. Using too much product can weigh down your hair, which can prevent it from standing up. When in doubt, use less clay/paste than you think you’ll need. You can always apply more later.
For a wet look, opt for a gel. For a dry finish, use a matte product. This technique works best on slightly dirty hair, as natural hair oils will help your hair hold its shape. Try fingerpicking your hair the day or two after you’ve washed it.
Save a few pictures of quiff styles on your phone to reference if you’re worried you won’t be able to describe what you want.